I read this article in a leading fortnightly magazine about
how some things are going to disappear from our lives.Some of the
things they had listed were Talcum powder, Alarm Clocks, Single-blade razors and so on. This list sends me on a sweet trip of heart-warming memories.
When I was very
young, my elder sister would sometimes get into a mothering mode. She would bathe me
till I was squeaky clean and then liberally powdered me with lots of talcum
powder. Later on she would make me a yummy snack and allow me to play with her
prized possessions; her books, comics and her trinkets. Wow! that was a real
treat considering that she rarely allowed anyone to touch her stuff. So there I was,sitting on the bed, covered with white powder and blissfully
playing like an angel. Sight for sore eyes!
Being the youngest
member in the family, I was used to a lot of molly coddling. I was quite a pampered
brat actually.
On Sundays my mother usually took a leisurely bath and wore her
soft cotton mekhela chadar and applied some nice smelling talcum powder. I
would stick by her side whole day and breathe into her lovely fragrance. In the afternoon siesta
time, I would lie next to her and put my head on her bare stomach, listen to her soft breathing and ask her if I had once actually lived inside her? Was
I the better daughter would be my next question? She would always reply that being
her last born child I was indeed the special one. That would make me feel very
content and serene. Even today the sweet fragrance of lavender or sandal wood makes
me feel fresh, snug and very happy, always reminding me of those times when my
world was a small and carefree place!
Then I became a mother myself. Bath-time
was fun time! The shampoo foam and body gel was shaped into weird hairdos for my frisky little one.Long
hours were spend playing and splashing around in the bathroom. All her toys got a bath too and
were scrubbed clean! Then wrapped snugly on a towel I would carry her to her bed where
she would run around in circles deliriously happy!Her favorite game was ghost-ghost!She would
apply all the powder on her face and try to scare us by being a “bhoot”!
When things disappear from our lives, like some things do,
don’t we all long for them to come back? Those days of my childhood and those
of my daughter’s are long gone. There are only memories now. Sweet and full of emotions.
Memories they come at unexpected moments and catch you unawares. Like the whiff
of a smell or the sight of something familiar.Then you are awestruck at how time has flown. Wasn't it just yesterday that it was all a part of
your life?Now all you have are some photographs and some memories? Just
like talcum powder, in the end only sweet fragrance remains of those bygone days.