I started my teaching career in’91 and have taught in quite
a few schools during this course of time. What I have learnt is that children
are mostly the same everywhere.They usually fall into certain personality types.
There are the bullies, the attention seekers, the wall-flowers, KTPs, the
athletes, the monitors, the funny ones and the out for fun ones. There may be
more types but it’s almost uncanny how similar children can be in personality
no matter where they belong. In every place that I worked in, whether in
Guwahati, Delhi, Ludhiana, Mumbai or here
in Nagpur, the school managements differ, the teachers are diverse in
personality, but the children they were always the same. Here are some classic
examples.
The ones which all teachers dread is the bully of the class.
The bullies in the class have massive attitudes. They rarely pay attention to
the teacher’s teaching. They never have their books and stationery. They will
argue and test the teacher’s patience. They have an air of "I don’t give a damn,
what can you do about it" Most of the time they go about rubbing people the wrong
way. Children fear them and keep their distances. Some silently look up to
them, hence their fan following.
Then there is the attention seekers.They flock around you.
They want your love and attention. They will volunteer to help you, raise their
hands to speak every time (even when they may not know the answer!) they border
on hero-worshiping you. They want to know about you and want you to know about
their lives. They may lack in confidence but not in their sweet smiles.
The wallflowers are the shy introverts of the class. They
never speak, volunteer or have anything to contribute to any discussion. They
keep to themselves and mostly mind their own business. They will sit silently
during your class and avoid looking at you. In fact most days you may not even
notice they are there. They usually have very few friends. Any attempt to draw
them into a conversation and you get mono-syllables as reply!
KTP a term I coin to club the keen Type Performers of every
class. They are excellent in academics.
They are the Toppers of the class. Their general knowledge on current
affairs is outstanding. They will usually be monitors and prefects. They
participate in all the extra-curricular activities. Teachers dole out praises
for their talents and skills. Sometimes however, the praises get into their
heads; they develop an air of superiority that borderline in rude behavior. Yet
most of them are modest, well behaved, disciplined and very hard working. Teachers
love them and every teacher-parent wishes for this perfect KTP child.
And the fun-loving children of the class. They are always
looking for some ‘masti’! They will do anything for some light moments of
humor. They get brilliant, innovative ideas of doing mischief. Very prompt at
saying sorry but rarely learning lessons from their mistakes. They always find
the class room a dull and boring place and they love the recess period. They
have a pack of friends always hanging on to their every word.
These are just a few types of children I come across in
every school that I have taught in. Children are all good at heart. Though they
lack in the years of experience they are basically smart and aware of things. Adults just
need to talk to them, show them what’s right and wrong. Discipline them by
example, because they hate to be condemned. Leave them alone to find their own
path. Today on Teacher’s Day I salute all my colleagues for guiding the
children to be good humans.
The school is a miniature world. There are all sorts of personalities here that add color to life and make it the perfect place of learning. And I am a learner here.